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♥ The Girl

Vinitha Valerie Vincent Henry.


If you think you know me, read my blog and think again.

I guess I'm just a girl wrapped in a mystery inside a bitch.

♥ Rant Bitch!





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♥ Thursday, December 6, 2007

As i traverse through life day by day, with many emotions carried on my back. Happiness,saddness,love and hate.Pain and pleasure,fear and courage.
Guilt and regret, missed opportunities.A whirlwind of mixed emotions,it is no wonder why its complicated to be a human being.

Everyone strives to be perfect but by being perfect in an imperfect world, isn't that person imperfect too?

As i grow older and older, i add on more and more questions to my "What if" list. More regrets that i have,more missed opportunities in my life and the guilt meter tat just keeps growing and growing.

Here is a list of 'What if' questions that i've come across in my life:

What if

1. I could have the chance to turn back time

2. I could make things right again

3. I could be prettier

4. I was born in a different family

5. I could have treasured him when he was around

6. I could have plucked up the courage to make him mine

7. I never broke up with him, would we still be happy?

8. I had worked harder when I was young

9. I never made that stupid mistake that costed me my life

10. I had never fallen in love with him

11. I could choose my destiny all over again

12.I could be smarter than others

13. I could bring him,back to life

14. I could say the things I wished I had the courage to say

15. I could have done the things that I promised

16. I could have taken back all the things that I said before

17. I could lead a different life

18. I could have treated him better so that the relationship would last

19. I was dead right now

20. I could never feel or need love in my life anymore

These are just some "What if" questions that passed me by in different stages of my life.

SOmetimes i wonder if it Would be better to reminence about the past and wish i could have done better or would it be better to forgive and forget?

Someone once told me that we never forgive and forget, rather we should forgive and learn, learn the many lessons about how much those missed opportunities cost us.

Have you thought about your "What if" list yet? I guess it only makes us more human.



I write sins,not tragedies.
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